Yabedi Pedrish
Family with home is related and the family aspect of determining the character of a person. Family is the smallest unit of society, made up of heads of families and some outstanding people in a home interdependence. Family is the most perfection of life.
Father as head of the family very important role in the development of her child. child development is a very noble task for a father, as a father almost every day the nearby the child. In interact with the child, when the child was a child then the father should be a good mentor for her son. father and son should have good communication to shape the moral values of a child's. father should be able to perform best control to child
If there is a father who control and shape the nature of a child,so mother is a place to complain, hope and love are the most important for a child, if the father is too hard to teach a child, Mothers who become place to inform a child to complain, mother always meet the needs of children and constantly always there for the children.
Families should have the following functions :
- Religion: good family certainly teach children about the value of religion to be beraklak and pious man. refer to qualified families who can shore up his family, build his future son and daughter appropriate with QS al-Anfal 28.
- Social: families should be able to invest social values to children, so that children do not feel afraid to socialize with the local community.
- Love and affection: the family had to teach her how to share love, not only for his own family but also others
So with the good teaching then will be seen the characteristic features of a good parent in the eyes of her children
- responsive parents: children desperately need a response from the parents about of the things that they do.
- parents who able to increase confidence
- keeping promises: parents are sometimes more demanding than giving something to their children, so that children are not eager to do something, but if the parent is able to keep her promise is ok
- provide guidance: This is required by child when he started growing up. "signal, if you are a successful parent so when they came to tell her personal problems to you"
- able balancing discipline: child must require discipline, but they do not have to continue to be robust to the rules
- give time and tolerance
so the family is an important aspect in building the character of someone, without the person's family will never be happy. Because humans will never win against loneliness
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