Leader in The Family

Puteri Murdiharti Kusuma Wardani 

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leader? in everyday life we often hear the word "leader". but do we know what is the significance of the leader? leader is one that we must obey and we follow. other than that a good leader should have a big responsibility and can make decisions firmly and wisely.

basically the nature of a man is to be a leader. I think a leader is like a father / husband in their home life. within a family there are families who have a right and obligation to lead a good life with housekeeping and lead to the right path. other than that a householder waijib provide physical and spiritual sustenance to his family.

husband and wife came from there he began to form a family. where the husband has the right to give it a positive for his wife as being assertive and not abusive. because domestic violence is an act that violates HUMAN RIGHTS and is very inhumane acts.

it is basically a man should respect women, because eventually everyone will definitely married and live together. in this context I consider that a man who became a leader by nature, but woman can also be a leader for his family when it meets certain conditions. and for each of the leaders certainly have an obligation to be waistband. Especially in a family, a husband should be able to protect his family in order to make their family always feel peaceful and prosperous. and also do not forget to always pay attention to every member of his family to make a “sakinah mawadah warahmah” family. General sense of the sentence sakinah, mawadah wa Rahmah is the family which is peace, calm and peaceful in the knitting of love, full of affection, and timeless.

it is not easy for any man to be able to keep his family remained peaceful. the fact that most families do not have peace and harmony. responding to the fact that it should be able to avoid it by way of trying to stay close to the family members although he was very busy  for making a living for the family. The way is to stay approaching to the wife and son / daughter and  also have to be maintained it. Because a man can be practically successful not only because it counts on the wealth but also can be seen through the harmony of their household. therefore in this short article I would like to instruct me to every leader of the household, or any member of the family in order to establish a harmonious relationship in the family because family relationship is a relationships that most affects in our lives and the most necessary for every person in the world.